Travel

Much of who we are depends on where we’ve been.

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Getting up close and personal with blue-footed boobies,
Isabela Island, Galapagos April 2017.
Fiery-billed aricaris, photographed from my luxury jungle paradise at Pacuare Lodge, Costa Rica. Feb 2020
Puffin Therapy, Isle of Lunga, Scotland

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Travel Tips & Tools

Researching

Some people tell me they never travel because they get lost doing the research. Hopefully this site gives you a head-start, but here are some other tips.

Choosing A Destination

Start with the end in mind. If you want a beach vacation, don’t start researching Ireland. What do you desire in your next trip? Nature, luxury getaway, girls trip, romance, downtime? Decide this first then keep that goal in mind when you start to wander.

Don’t forget to consider time of year. Yes, it’s easy to pick the Caribbean when it’s winter in New England, but realize that it does get cold in Bermuda and Hawaii has a very rainy season – so even though these places evoke tropical breezes, it depends when you go. Take a quick minute to research the climate or “travel season” of your potential destination.

PRO TIP: Don’t be afraid to travel to a destination just because it is “off” season. That usually means less than perfect weather, but it also means less crowds and cheaper prices. Researching will also help you decide how far in advance you need to plan. While most trips don’t require much, if you want to attend the Running of the Bulls in Spain or a trip to the Galapagos, you may need to plan this more than a year in advance to have the best experience.

Google is ready to serve you. If you have no idea where to go, try Googling “best girl’s getaway weekend in March” or something like that. Read articles from travel sites and magazines like Travel & Leisure, Lonely Planet or National Geographic. Sometimes I’ll add these brands directly to my Google search because they are reputable and reliable for good info.

You can also just go to Google maps, and start with where you are. Zoom way in. Now drag the map around, zooming in and out to see what’s around you that you might have overlooked.

Travel Time

How much time do you have? You can’t go to Europe for a long weekend. Start by figuring out your window.

I like to group travel into 3 buckets: long weekend, week long and 2+ weeks. If you only have a long weekend, you can consider destinations in driving distance or places that are accessible by direct flight from your local airport.

For someone that lives in New York, you can go nearly anywhere in the world direct. If you live in a city that doesn’t have a lot of direct flights, recognize that this will take precioius hours out of a vacation day.

If you’ll be flying, figure at least 2 hours from the time your flight is scheduled to land before you will have your bags, arrive at your home base and have a minute to freshen up. Add an hour for international destinations to allow for customs. If you try to go too far, your long-weekend just turned into only a few hours of actual destination time.

Budget

This is the hardest part for me. But it is a good idea to have a general budget in mind. If you plan to fly to your destination, it’s a good idea to price out flights before you get too far. That also gives you schedules which helps you carve out how much actual time you will have in your destination.

Maybe the bulk of your budget can be allocated for accommodations because you’re going to be hiking or attending free festivals. But if you are headed to Disney, a big piece of your budget will be park tickets and food. You can pick modest accommodations because you’ll be too exhausted to care where your head hits the pillow.

Home Base

Once I’ve narrowed down one or two possible destinations, I usually start looking at accommodations. How much time will you spend in your home base? I’m always tempted to go luxury and tend to pick places that end up being so much more than I needed.

The purpose of travel is to explore and immerse, so all you really need is a safe, clean place to keep your suitcase, shower and sleep.

EXCEPTION: There are exceptions to this general rule. First, there is beauty in booking a luxury hotel for a long weekend with the intention of staying in your room, ordering room service and having spa treatments. Another exception is a ski, beach or boat vacations where you might want a full kitchen, especially in remote destinations where restaurants and nightlife are limited.

Where To Start Your Research

Using TripAdvisor

  • When researching a specific hotel, click “reviews”. Then sort by time of year, or solo travel, or families. Note the bars that quickly show the overall rating that previous travelers have given, from Excellent to Terrible.
  • Ignore reviews that rant about bad experiences. They are usually one-off situations.
  • Look at the real traveler photos. Hotel websites always make the property look better than it is, so viewing real traveler photos ensures you don’t have too high of an expectation
  • Another hidden tool on TripAdvisor under the Review section is “Room Tips”. This can be very helpful. You thought you wanted a room with a view until you read that it came with significant city street noise. Now when you book, you can save money by not reserving that view.
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Start Booking

The great thing about booking most things is that you can cancel. Plane tickets may not always be refundable, but there nearly always changeable. Rental car reservations don’t require a credit card and there is no cancellation penalty.

That means there is no reason not to go ahead and secure a reservation for a room, a tour, a rental car or a restaurant in advance. It might help you feel like you’re making progress to get one thing crossed of the list. Not to mention that it is very frustrating if you do all your research, pick the ideal hotel and then find out two weeks later when you are ready to book everything that it is full.

I often use sites like TripAdvisor and Expedia to quickly research prices and availability for hotels. But I ALWAYS go directly to the hotel website to actually book. The only exception to this is when you are going to use credit card points to pay in which case you must book through your credit card site.

PRO TIP: Do your homework before booking through your credit card. I have found that the credit card booking engines typically spit out a price SIGNIFICANTLY HIGHER than the hotel will have if you book directly. I’ve found sometimes it makes more sense to charge the room and use points for rental cars and flights which tend to not have markup.

It is extremely rare for the price to be higher when you book directly vs. using a booking site. Yes, I realize that Travelocity will never sponsor my website if I tell you not to use them, but in my experience you always do better booking with the property directly.

Why? If you use a mass-booking site and then have issues with reservations or rates, you’ve got to deal with 1-800-whomever. The hotel can’t help you. Have a special request? Or want to negotiate for an upgrade when you check in? The hotel can’t adjust your rate if you book through a booking site. So while they would have upgraded you to the penthouse suite for an extra $50 a night, you are out of luck because your rate is already locked in through the booking agency.

PRO TIP: Ask for upgrades! If you don’t ask, you won’t receive. Also specify things like “prefer a room farther from elevator” or “prefer higher floors” in your reservation. You’ll usually get it.

Credit Card Points

This is a treasure that I learned to take advantage of years ago, and I’m still stunned at how many people don’t. The key here is to do your research on credit cards. I used to think it was bad to have three or four cards but I got over that.

CREDIT CARD PRO TIP: Updated Feb 2025

I recently did extensive research on this because after many years of loyalty to the Chase Sapphire Reserve card, I realized Chase had made changes to their points earning system and their transfer partners that seriously eroded the value of that card.

Do you own homework, but my current card lineup as of February 2025 is:

Once I cancel AMEX, I’ll research what cards are offering great sign-on miles deals and may add a new card to the rotation. I do find that it is useful to accumulate miles on cards that transfer to United Airlines as a good alternative to American.

Lay of the Land

Okay, the accommodations are booked. Time to map out any key tours or activities. Two great places to start are the concierge at the hotel or just the front desk. A quick phone call can give you great free information. I also like to visit the official Chamber of Commerce page or destination pages. These are not sponsored by anyone so the info is unbiased and tends to cover the most interesting things all in one place.

Example: Park City, Utah

Click the picture to visit a standard informational site for this destination. This gives quick access to hotels and activities, and often a calendar of events. Can you imagine heading to New Orleans for a getaway weekend and not realizing it was Mardi Gras? This is how you avoid that.

Click to visit the info page for Park City, Utah
An unplanned experience in Bajo del Toro Amarillo, Costa Rica

Can You Over Plan?

Yes! You simply can’t plan every second. You’ll never get it all in. The best travel experiences are the ones that happen organically, in between the planned ones. A good rule of thumb is to leave an entire day free for every 3 days of travel. So if you have a week, plan 4 days of activities and leave 3 open for spontaneity or for downtime.

Trip Preparation & Packing Lists

I’m not your momma, so you’ll have to pack your own suitcase. But I can share some tips to lighten your load.

Obviously you need clothes, toiletries and medications. Always start there. I lay out clothes in a day-to-day lineup, walking through the various activities in my mind. Travel Day 1 – need comfy clothes and shoes. Hiking Day 2 – appropriate shoes, lightweight/water/windproof pants, socks, etc. Then I make myself remove at least 2 outfits and 2 pairs of shoes. You may have to sacrifice just a sliver of fashion to be smart, but if you challenge yourself and your closet you likely won’t sacrifice a thing. Here is my general packing process for one week of travel:

  • Lay out travel-day clothes and shoes where you can see them, get out the appropriate sized suitcase and lay it out open. TIP: I refuse to check bags if at all possible. The goal is always a carry-on sized roller bag.
  • Think about your activity days – start with the shoes you traveled in and lay out outfits that work with them. There is nothing better than hiking pants and tops that can roll up to virtually nothing. They weigh very little, can easily get washed in a hotel tub or sink and dry very fast. If you need hiking shoes for the trip, consider traveling in them or they take up precious real estate in your luggage and will quickly push you over the edge into a larger suitcase.
  • Think about after-activity time – dinners, pool, sitting around the hotel. Pick one pair of shoes and match 4 outfits around them. Put the jewelry with them now. For pool time, don’t forget flip flops or sandals for to/from pool and a cover up so you aren’t cruising the hotel lobby in your bikini.
  • Sleepwear. You probably only need one set.
  • Undergarments and socks. Overdo underwear and socks.
  • Sunglasses, hats, outerwear. If it will be cold where you are going, carry your jacket on the plane. You’ll be glad if your luggage doesn’t make it because coats are expensive to replace.
  • Small backpack. This replaces your normal shoulder bag or purse. Extremely handy, doubles as a beach bag. This can be your one carry-on item. Sometimes I pack a set of clothes, especially if I plan to check bag, but I always pack a toothbrush, aspirin, motion sickness pills, antacids, hand sanitizer, an essential oil or relaxing aromatherapy lotion, lip butter, headphones, a book and a little refresher mist or skin toner for freshening up. These simple things can salvage the unexpected but sometimes inevitable miserable day of travel.
  • Hairbrush and a good dry shampoo. I do not travel with a hairdryer. Ever. Release your au natural.
  • A supply of plastic grocery bags and Ziploc bags. These are invaluable not only for separating the dirty laundry from clean, wrapping up shoes for packing and wrapping up anything liquid, but they are handy when packing picnic lunches during hikes or for wet clothes and sandy suntan lotion bottles on beach days.
  • A small bottle of liquid laundry detergent for doing basic laundry in a hotel room. I will absolutely use hotel laundry service if available. IMO, a very under-utilized service and worth the money. But for small mishaps or days when the timing won’t work, a sink will do just fine. Tiny amount of detergent, rinse well. Shower rods make great clotheslines for drying.
  • One credit card, cash and paper copies of your Driver’s License and/or Passport. TIP: You should take a screenshot of your Driver’s License and Passport and have it in your phone in case you lose the real ones. That expedites the replacement process and ensures you can check in to your hotel. NOTE: Once at your hotel, use the safe to store your ID papers.
  • The one comfort item I always pack is a travel candle and matches. It just makes a hotel room feel more like home, and can eliminate unpleasant odors. The matches are key as hotels no longer supply them and cigarette lighters may get confiscated by TSA.
  • Miscellaneous Essentials – My toiletry bag has the following items which I never unpack so I never have to worry about forgetting them.
    • Band-aids and clear nail polish or skin glue
    • Qtips, cotton balls, nail file, elastic headband, shower cap
    • Toothbrush and toothpaste (the most commonly forgotten item – don’t expect your hotel to have it)
    • Travel sized soap (some hotel soaps are just crap)
    • Bug repellant stick
    • Small pair scissors
    • Travel sewing kit
    • An airplane sized bottle of Whiskey (obvious reasons, plus it is an antiseptic)
    • Small mirror
    • Small bottle of Febreeze (less than 3 oz)
    • Tide Stain stick
    • Safety pins
    • Ear plugs
  • Cosmetics – Ladies, I want you to challenge yourself. Cut your make up by 2/3rds, take older products that you need to use up and throw away, convert necessary products to travel sized containers (label them). When I travel I bring good exfoliator and skin masks for a spa-like experience and stress relief. A tinted primer, a neutral eyeshadow, one liner pencil and a simple lip gloss. Let your real glow shine.
Body Shop discontinued this cult favorite, but several people on Etsy have good alternatives. Search “adzuki bean scrubs”. I’m working on a recipe of my own…stay tuned. In a pinch, buy some dry adzuki beans (Whole Foods) and grind them up to fine in a spice grinder. Put a dime-sized amount in your palm and let a few drops warm water splash in. Massage it into a paste and exfoliate gently.
I love this mask for its texture and slight drying sensation. It is a clarifying mask perfect for preventing travel breakouts, especially if lathering up in suntan lotion everyday.

Time to get it all in the suitcase!

Shoes first, wrapped in plastic grocery bags. Toiletry bag next rounding out the bottom layer. Tuck socks and undergarments in and around the shoes. Roll all clothing tightly. I’m telling you this is a magic trick that will allow you to get everything in that carry-on. Use the zipper pockets for extra grocery bags, belts, hats, hairbrushes and personal items. One carry-on bag should accommodate clothes for one week, assuming you may travel home in the same clothes you traveled in or that you might re-use or launder along the way. There is nothing more frustrating than hauling a big suitcase to the airport, waiting in line to check it, paying to check it and then staring at all the unnecessary stuff you brought at the end of the trip knowing you have to do it all over again.